Saturday, November 24, 2012

As mentioned in my last post I finished my 50 book pledge and am back to reading for the fun of it. My latest read was THE LIGHTHOUSE by Alison Moore and here are my thoughts.

This book started off really well and I thought it was going to be a really fantastic read but after about the midpoint the flashbacks for both of the main characters became repetitive. I like that the author didn’t go into a lot of detail about what happened in the closet but rather left it to the readers imagination.

Monday, November 5, 2012

50BookPledge Book 50 Cyndi Lauper A Memoir

I did it! Back in January I signed up for the #50BookPledge as promoted by @SavvyReader.  I thought at the time I was going to zoom through the books and be more then done by mid year. The next thing I knew it was summer and  things slowed down a fair bit the vacations and entertaining my daughter. As September started I thought I was going to be hard pressed to keep going and meet the goal set 9 months earlier, especially since I had shifted my focus from reading to working on my family history and searching for work. However, I'm very pleased to say that I reached my goal of 50 books read in 2012, but I doubt I'll sign up for next year.  If reading children's books count, then I've probably read a couple hundred more.

Book 50 Cyndi Lauper A Memoir by Cyndi Lauper with Jancee Dunn from Simon and Schuster 2012.
Loved this book to pieces.  Found that it flowed very well and I was able to relate to the story.  There are several references to Cyndi playing a dulcimer which I find absolutely fantastic as my daughter is learning to play one now. Some of the references to other artists were very intriguing especially when Canadians are mentioned.

Sunday, October 21, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 49 What's for Lunch

Book 49 is What's for Lunch?How Schoolchildren Eat Around the World by Andrea Curtis from Red Deer Press 2012

This is a Canadian book about the assorted types and locations of school lunches around the world.  It also looks at how children, families, communities and governments are working to make nutritious lunches available to all. 

I really enjoyed the book which was an easy and short read.  It would have been nice to read about more scenarios, but that may have been overwhelming. I don't think Miss R is ready for this book yet, but in a few years it will be helpful when she stops eating her school lunches.

Congratulations Ms Curtis for opening our eyes to how others live.

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

#50BookPledge Catchup

Books 45 and 46 were both from the Harlequin Desire series. The first was Tangled Affair and the second Relentless Pursuit. These were definitely more smut then story line and definitely worthy of the title of brain candy. I’m about to give up on CHARLOTTE STREET but am giving it a couple more chapters. I told myself that just because I have book doesn’t mean I have to read it doesn’t catch my attention so I’ll update on that soon.

Try as I might CHARLOTTE STREET by Danny Wallace was not a book I could get into. The premise of the story was just too unbelievable for me and I could not relate to the characters.
  
I finished Philippa Gregory's THE KINGMAKER'S DAUGHTER from Simon and Schuster this afternoon and must say I was enraptured with it. This was book #48 of my 2012 50 book pledge. The Kingmaker's Daughter is a perfect mix of the actual history of the War of the Roses in England as well as the fictitious story. I found myself often looking up facts about Anne Neville - later Queen Anne and Richard III regularly.  Even though I was listening to the unabridged audio book I found I "couldn't put it down" and was forever looking for opportunities to listen to more. Congratulations to Ms Gregory for such a detailed novel. She seems to be able to tie up lose ends a lot better then the actual history did.

Friday, September 7, 2012

#50BookPledge Books 43 & 44 - Bringing Up Bebe & Beautiful Ruins

I'm reviewing books 43 and 44 in the same post because I can and not because there is a common theme.

Book 43 was Bringing Up Bebe by Pamela Druckerman from Penguin Press 2012.

As you may or may not know I like to read parenting books especially those about different styles as we try to mold Miss R into a well rounded individual. In a lot of ways I found that Bringing Up Bebe reflected a lot of the techniques that my parents used raising me and could really relate to them.  While I don't necessarily agree with everything in Druckerman's book there are definitely ideas that I can use in my own home.  The book moves along at a fairly quick pace and does a lot of compare and contrast between what the author sees living in France and what she sees when visiting family in the United States. She also makes it clear that neither style is necessarily right or wrong but there are good attributes in both. What I really see is that France uses more of the Village approach while North Americans tend to be much more insular.  Worth the read and I know it is making an impact in our home.


Book 44 was Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter from Harper Collins 2012.

I loved this book, actually wasn't able to put it down.  All of the characters, the scenery and the flow of the story just made it that much more wonderful. My apologies to the author but I originally thought Beautiful Ruins was written by a woman and was pleasantly surprised to find out it was a man.  The novel spans a large period of time, but is done in such a manner that you don't get lost but are drawn in.  My rating for this book is 5 out of 5.

Thursday, September 6, 2012

First Week Lunches

Well I haven't done horrible for the first week of school lunches but it hasn't been perfect yet.  The good news is she hasn't left anything uneaten yet, the bad news is we've had some leaks.

On Wednesday when I picked Miss R up I noticed that her cooler was wet.  When I asked her if she knew what/how she didn't have an answer! As I unpacked the cooler I discovered her chocolate milk leaked. The culprit, a water bottle that wasn't closed properly.  Cleaned everything out and rinsed out cooler but it needs a good scrubbing so went to emergency cooler for Thursday. I also decided since the cooler was empty to find out if she had enough food. She told me that she did/but didn''t. She was fine for first break and lunch, but not for second break.  It then decided to give some extra on Thursday.

I worked on Wednesday night to make some rice pudding and after some challenges with it.  It eventually thickened and I was able to send it with Miss R.  Well that didn't work as planned.  She opened the rice pudding first break then decided to eat the easier food of applesauce and raspberries. The problem was she didn't close the lid properly so when she opened her cooler again at lunch the rice pudding had spilled all over. Thankfully someone at school helped her clean it up and I got a soggy wet napkin home. Good news is Miss r had enough to eat and even brought home a small piece of hot dog.


Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Back To School 2012

So today was the first day of school for Miss R this year.  She is in Full Day Kindergarten Year Two meaning she needs a lunch and two snacks.  I've been dreading the menu portion of her day for a while and working on ideas to make sure she is well fed.  I don't know why I was worried about it because I've already done this for full day summer camps and if perfectly honest when she's home with me all day. 

Miss R is taking an active role in selecting her lunch bag contents and so far that has served me well.  Today she took applesauce, carrots and tomatoes, milk, water, and cheesy pasta as well as the standard napkin, ice pack and her folding spoon.  Doesn't sound like much, but she really didn't touch her water and decided not to eat the carrots.  Miss R can be a finicky eater, but when push comes to shove if she's hungry she'll eat what she's given.

We'll see what tomorrow brings since she's asked for applesauce, cheesy pasta, milk (packed differently as the tetra's are very hard to drink from), water and raspberries.  I'm waiting for the milk program to start because that will mean one less thing I need to put in her cooler.  On the other hand I'm not super thrilled with hot lunch.  The hot lunch choice is pizza every Wednesday, but we've opted for pizza once a month.

I just need to remember if she's hungry she'll eat and if she's involved she's more apt to eat it.

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 42 The Night Circus

I'm surprised. My 50 book challenge while slowing down during the summer has still moved fairly well. I think YMBC and the endless pile of books in my bedroom is the encouragement I needed.  Book 42 The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern from Doubleday Canada was a departure as I read it on my Kobo which was a nice change.

The Night Circus is a fun book.  I won't say it is a book that I couldn't put down, but I was always ready to pick it back up.  Due to my summer schedule it wasn't uncommon to be away from the book for a couple of days and I am happy to say I didn't feel the need to reread anything making it really easy to keep moving forward.  Marco and Celia are both interesting characters who would probably be considered somewhat mistreated by today's standards. 

I loved the circus as the playground for a very complex, nonspecific challenge to occur as well as the nursery for a deep abiding love to develop.  I found all of the characters to have multiple layers making them much believable.  It is curious to me how Poppet was able to predict the future of the circus while Celia believes her with no real questions asked. 

The Night Circus is a wonderful read and I am thrilled that Marco & Celia get what they want and deserve at the end of the book.  It is really too bad that their parents/teachers let their egos ruin the lives of these two dynamic people.

Friday, August 3, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 41 Next Best Thing

The Next Best Thing: A Novel by Jennifer Weiner from Atria Books 2012

I've read one of Ms Weiner's books before and must say this one was much different.  I enjoyed the book and character development.  The way Ruth's story is told in this novel maybe confusing for some but I liked the mini flashbacks, that were about a chapter in length each.  By working with the story which happens after Ruth moves to Hollywood and gets her dream writing job, we get glimpses into how Ruth got to that point.

I applaud Ms Weiner for working with main characters that have physical flaws and seeing those characters "win" in the end. She tries very hard to have Ruth's story, as Ruth writes it for her TV, echo parts of Ruth's real life.  Ruth's ability to stick to her guns and get what she wants in the end makes for a perfect story.

A great summer beach read.

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 40 Ecoholic Body

Ecoholic Body: Your Ultimate Earth Friendly Guide to Living Healthy and Looking Good by Adria Vasil from Random House Canada 2012

Love all of the Ecoholic books and this one is no exception.  I am always looking for ways to tweak things in my life so that we as a family are encountering fewer man-made products and Adria's books provide the answers I'm looking for.  Ecoholic Body is a great book focused mainly on the body, inside and out.  Granted it took me a couple of months to read the entire book it will now become a reference and has already provided some information on Sunscreen for my daughter and asthma therapy for my mom. 

Admittedly I'm not as "Green" as I would like to be and therefore far from as "Green" as Adria is, this book doesn't  necessarily make me feel bad but rather educates.  I've always been weary of what I'm giving my daughter but never consciously considered myself.  This statement is in keeping with Adria's comment that new parents are more eco conscious then many others. 

As I said I loved this book, will be keeping it as a reference and if you are looking for a Canadian Resource for living a more Eco friendly lifestyle then this book is for you.

Thanks Adria!

#50BookPledge Book 39 Confined Space

Confined Space by Deryn Collier from Simon and Schuster 2012

Wow talk about using metaphors! Confined Space is filled with them starting with the title.  These metaphors have created a highly layered and intriguing book.  I especially enjoyed how Deryn parallels the activities in the mystery with the life cycle of the inconspicuous tomato.

Deryn's characters have many layers making for several well developed main and secondary characters however some of the more minor characters are extraneous to the story. I also had a hard time dealing with the secondary story from Berm's life as a soldier and the court marshal.

Deryn obviously did a great deal of research while writing Confined Space creating a mystery that you don't want to put down.  I'm pretty sure you'll be surprised by the ending of the novel because at least for me the ultimate villain was completely unexpected.  


Sunday, July 29, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 38 Drop Dead Healthy

Drop Dead Healthy by A.J. Jacobs from Simon and Schuster 2012

What can I tell you about this book or AJ Jacobs well a fair bit. I found Drop Dead Healthy to be a very well written book that was easy to read and provided a new perspective on the myriad of health information we are bombarded with from media sources.

When you read Jacob's book you'll find a lot of what e is talking about is based on common sense but at the same time he is realistic.  Jacobs reiterates numerous times throughout Drop Dead Healthy that the science supporting a number of healthy living steps is inconclusive at best and sometimes in conflict with studies on another part of the body or diseases.

I liked that AJ was honest through the 27 chapters and brought the book full circle with the Epilogue. He doesn't try to convert you to his "temporary" style of living not does he say he is going to keep it all up, but rather highlights what works best for him.  Jacobs ultimate message it that we all can live a healthier life but a longer life because life happens.

I found Drop Dead Healthy informative and have added it to my husband's growing pile of books.  Definitely worth the read for me and it has given me some inspiration.




Friday, July 27, 2012

#50BookPledge Lone Wolf

The Lone Wolf by Jodi Picoult from Emily Bestler Books 2012

I feel frustrated having read this novel! The Lone Wolf was lent to me by a friend that often times has similar reading preferences so there was an immediate expectation that I would like it, but sadly it wasn't the case.


I like Picoult's method of story telling where each of the main characters has their own chapters to state their side of things while still moving the story forward. This was generally the case in the Lone Wolf, in fact I found Luke's chapters unnecessary.  While I understand the need to develop strong characters I fond Lone Wolf progress too slow for my liking and I lost interest in it.

So a bit more forward movement by Picoult or more back story is my preference.  As a result I give Lone Wolf 3 out of 5 starts.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 36 Vaclav and Lena

Before I start on this post let me first say that it is easier to write reviews immediately after reading a book rather than waiting until you have time.

Vaclav and Lena by Haley Tanner from Vintage Canada 2012

Vaclav and Lena is a very interesting book on so many levels.  When one first starts reading it you might expect it to be a young adult/coming of age book but it is so much more and requires a lot of attention to the story.  There are so many layers of to the story and to the characters covering everything from immigration to adoption to fitting in to abuse to growing up.  I greatly appreciate Ms Tanner's ability to stay true to her characters by writing them in English as a Second Language text especially in the early chapters.  While I found the ESL dialogue difficult at times it really does help to establish the characters.  On top of that Vaclav and Lena both lose their Russian accent as they grow into what Rasia deems "American Teenagers."

Vaclav, the male lead in this book seems like a very normal individual with a strong relationship with his mother Rasia.  He also shows that love at first site happens and doesn't disappear just because that person is no longer in your life.  I commend Vaclav on his desire to help/protect Lena while finding out the truth about her past without requiring her to face the history directly.

I really felt for Lena, the female lead, because even though it isn't explicitly stated until near the end of the book, you know that something bad is happening to her.  Lena turns out, or so it seems, to be a very well adjusted young lady until her secret is revealed to her and those around her.  Lucky for her she has people around to help her including Emily who she calls her Real Mom, Rasia - Vaclav's mom and even though it doesn't initially seem that way her Aunt Ekaterina who tries to shelter her from the seedy world that she was a part of thanks to her method of immigration.

Vaclav and Lena is a book that will take you time to read and make you think about what you are reading, but it is worth reading because you will grow as a result.

Friday, June 15, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 35 French Kids Eat Everything

French Kids Eat Everything (and yours can too) by Karen Le Billon from Harper Collins 2012

I'm always looking for ways to get Miss R to eat better, even though most of my friends and the family doctor don't think she's picky.  By reading Karen's book I've discovered that Miss R maybe isn't much different then most of her peers, but that doesn't mean things can't change. 

French Kids Eat Everything presents things in such a way that it is easy to see where the two cultures, North American and French, are different when it comes to approaches to food.  I read the book and started to implement some of the suggestions immediately.  It was a huge surprise to mean just how well using fixed times for snacks works. 

The thing that really got my attention in this book was Chapter 9 when the family returns to Vancouver from France only to find out that the French method of eating may not work in all situations and adaption will be required to fit into your unique circumstances. 

I have marked the last chapter of for my husband to read because it summarizes the rules and hope to try some of the recipes very soon.  I also plan on posting my version of the rules somewhere near my kitchen to remind me what I'm trying to accomplish for the entire family.

Hopefully Karen's book is read by the right people to make changes in our school systems so our children don't continue to rush through their lunches just so they can be hungry a couple hours later.

Thank you Karen for showing me that I can get my child to eat better/more without driving myself crazy.

Sunday, June 10, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 34 The Naughty Bucket List

The Naughty Bucket List by Kourtney Jason from Amorata Press 2011

For someone considered conservative, old fashioned and unadventurous this book was a real stretch for me.  The book offers 369 suggestions to make your love life much spicier.  Some of the suggestions had merit and I'm certain I'll try them if I haven't already.  There were several that weren't for me though and went against my morals like the suggestion of having a one night stand.  There are several that are yeah maybe and an equal number of probably not.  Regardless of your view thought The Naughty Bucket List will provide some useful suggestions for your love life.  The book is an easy read and the suggests are just ideas, not a how to.  Even though not everything works for everyone,it is worth at minimum a quick skim.

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 33 The Beggar's Opera

The Beggar's Opera by Peggy Blair from Penguin Canada 2012

I was completely drawn into this book, a phenomenal piece of Canadian fiction.  Mrs Blair does a fantastic job of developing the setting both in Havana Cuba and the secondary location of Ottawa.  As you read the description you can visualize all aspects of Old Havana and almost taste the Christmas dinner at Inspector Ramirez home. 

Mrs. Blair doesn't stop with the setting, but develops all of her characters whether major or minor.  I was able to picture Celia Jones and Michael Ellis.  It was easy to keep the characters straight, feel the pain of the characters, understand how Detective Rodriguez turned into the person he became, and even relate to the uniqueness of Maria.

The Beggar's Opera was a book I didn't want to put down but I didn't rush through either as I was afraid of missing a key piece of the story.  Definitely worth your time to read and I am looking forward to more books from this author.

Thursday, May 31, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 32 The Proposal and Solid Soul

The Proposal and Solid Soul by Brenda Jackson from Harlequin Desire 2010 (2 books in one).

This was my second time reading a Brenda Jackson book and a much more enjoyable experience. 

The Proposal is the romance of Elizabeth (Bella) Bostwick, who is trying to get out from under her parents thumb, and Jason Westmoreland, a horse breeder.   The story starts with Bella moving away from her parents to start a new life. She meets the hero of the story and after a few misunderstanding they fall in love.  There are forces at work to keep them apart like her great uncle and his grandkids as well as her parents.  However, Jason's family fully supports their relationship.  After a few tense chapters where Bella's house is vandalized then set ablaze Bella agrees to marriage.  Of course there is more misunderstanding that disappear when Jason declares his love for Bella.  Then they go on to live happily ever after.  I recommend buying separately from Solid Soul.

Solid Soul is the second book and I just skimmed it as the first chapter was about two scheming teenagers trying to match up their parents didn't appeal to me.  Of course the teens are successful ad the parents agree to marry which ultimately makes it hard for the teens to act on their feelings.



Tuesday, May 29, 2012

#50BookPledge In The Doctor's Bed Book 31

In The Doctor's Bed by Brenda Jackson from Kimani Romance 2011

I don't mind an easy read romance novel every once in awhile but I was really disappointed in this one.  Not only did this book follow the very predictable Harlequin formula, I found the need to remind the reader constantly that this was an Afro American couple very annoying.  I read a lot and honestly couldn't careless about the characters race.  This novel did absolutely nothing for me and made me wonder if I would want to read other books by this author.  I agree that description and settings are needed to develop a storyline but I don't need a recap every chapter.  1 out of 5 at best.


Tuesday, May 22, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 30 Ain't Misbehavin'

Ain't Misbehavin' by Alyson Schafer from Wiley and Sons Canada 2011

Ain't Misbehavin' is the latest of Alyson Schafer's parenting books.  Unlike the other 2 books, this one is filled with solutions or suggestions to deal with different behaviours parents encounter on a regular basis.  Ain't Misbehavin' groups behaviours by type covering everything from the bedroom to school to sibling rivalry to extra curricular activities.  This books need not be read from start to finish if there is an area you really want to challenges in but I recommend reading all of it.  Alyson offers suggestions for dealing for with the behaviour when it happens and solution to work towards at reducing and often eliminating unwanted reactions.  I really enjoyed the book and am finding Alyson's tips are making life in my home less confrontational even though the gist of it is Mommy Butt Out and that is hard to do after five years.  I am a firm believer in having as many tools as you need to keep your family functioning well and Ain't Misbehavin' has found a permanent home in my family library.  The concepts are consistent throughout the book and even if you encounter a situation not specifically covered, you can use the techniques explained to work on a solution. Thanks again Alyson.

Monday, May 7, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 29 The Wealthy Barber Returns

The Wealthy Barber Returns by David Chilton From Financial Awareness Press 2011

This book was very different from the original book. Chilton's wit shines throughout the book resulting in messages that are easy to understand when it comes to managing one's finances.  I missed the story aspect of the original Wealthy Barber, but enjoyed The Wealthy Barber Returns all the same.  I like that there aren't a lot of equations and math but rather good old fashioned common sense in the book.  I tend think I'm pretty good with finances but even I learned a thing or two while reading as was definitely reminded of a few things I know I should be doing!  If your are looking for an easy, non condescending way to find out what you can do to get your finances on track this is the book for you.

Friday, April 27, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 28 Honey, I Wrecked the Kids

Honey, I Wrecked the Kids: When Yelling, Screaming, Threats, Bribes, Time-Outs, Sticker Charts and Removing Privileges All Don't Work by Alyson Schafer from Wiley Canada  

I'm always looking for new/additional methods for nurturing my daughter and make sure we aren't getting into never ending battles.  This book was an eye-opening read as Alyson seemed to have insight into what is happening in my family/my head. One of the challenges Alyson presents is to go a week without saying no to your child.  This is something I'm tackling and must admit not doing well with, but I plan to stick with it because when I get it right it makes life much easier.  What I like in particular about Alyson's writing is that she is writing from experience since she is a parent and lived the style of parenting she's promoting for her life.  Honey, I Wrecked the Kids: When Yelling, Screaming, Threats, Bribes, Time-Outs, Sticker Charts and removing Privileges All Don't Work is having a positive impact on my family. 

Friday, April 13, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 27 Breaking the Good Mom Myth

Breaking the Good Mom Myth by Alyson Schafer from John Wiley & Sons 2006

I really enjoyed this book, probably because it was written by a mom and she admits she sometimes has to regroup.  I've read a number of parenting books over the last four years and this is by far one of the better ones.  It tackles real life situations, giving you alternatives to what current society expects.  The solutions offered when reviewed carefully are good old common sense and initially leave you wondering "why didn't I think of that?"  My biggest take away was that I don't need to be like every other mom on the block and really shouldn't try to be, but instead be realistic with expectations of both self and child.  Well worth a 4 out of 5 review.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

#50BookPledge Book #26 Zen & the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig from Renaissance Audio 1999.

Not necessarily my cup of tea but an interesting book overall.  It didn't take me long to realize that the motorcycle maintenance was a metaphor used throughout the book to help weave the themes together.  The content wasn't something I really paid much attention to but was very interested in the story of a father and son traveling across the country on a motorcycle.  I was particularly interested in chapters 32 and 33 as they tied the story and life after together.  The author has given us insight into his life that he didn't need to share and really shows how life goes on even after a child passes.  My rating is a 3 out of 5.

Friday, April 6, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 25 Falling Backwards

Falling Backwards by Jann Arden from Knopf Canada 2011.

This was a very interesting biography by a very interesting woman who is a household name in Canadian music.  I enjoyed reading Jann's life story because she wasn't afraid to reveal the sad, the ridiculous or the difficult from her readers and she put her own special brand of comedy into many of the pages in the book.  It must have been hard to write this book without hurting feelings or revealing too much about the other folks in the family that didn't want their stories shared the same way.  Jann is very thoughtful of her family members wishes, or at least that is my assumption, in that she only shares about her brothers what you need to know and again an assumption, what they are willing to let her share.  The Canadianism's scattered throughout Falling Backwards are hilarious reminding me of a time when life was very different even though it was only 30 years ago.  Thank you Jann for this honest overview of your life and showing that you never know what is going to happen in your life unless you decide to pursue it wholeheartedly.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 24 The Taming



Random House Canada Random Reader Challenge Young Adult

So the Challenge this time around was to read one of the following Adult fiction books:

The Gathering by Kelley Armstrong
The Taming by Teresa Toten and Eric Walters
Someone Else’s Life by Katie Dale
Blood Red Road by Moira Young
The Fathomless Fire by Thomas Wharton
Flip by Martyn Bedford

For me the decision came down to which book became available first from my local library.  The first book to win the battle was The Taming by Teresa Toten and Eric Walters from DoubleDay Canada 2012. It also ended up being my 24th read for the 50 Book Pledge. 

The Taming is a book about high school students who meet and become involved while their drama class performs Shakespeare's The Taming of The Shrew.  The Taming starts off strong with an introduction to Katie and her friends Travis and Lisa.  The second chapter introduces us to Evan who becomes Katie's boyfriend.  There is a very distinct clash between different society classes.  The novel switches between Katie and Evan's POV every chapter to give a rounded account of the story.

As the book continues there are several parallels to The Taming of The Shrew, however Katie goes from being a person who disappears into the background to a strong confident young woman able to stand
up to and ultimately break up with Evan a very controlling boyfriend. This of course is the reverse of what happens in the play but it deals with a reality many teens face.

I found the turning points in the book to be when Katie's mom's boyfriend Joey tells Katie to be careful and that he suspects what is happening as well as when Katie goes to Lisa for help in "catching" Evan.  It was wonderful to see Katie stand up to Evan and I got the impression even though he was making all the promises he didn't really change but was just a smooth operator like his father used to getting women to do whatever he wanted.

The Taming is a relatively easy read that explores the issue of  controlling/abusive relationships in a subtle manner.  I enjoyed the book and recommend to any young girl in such a circumstance or
a friend who wants to know how to support a friend in such a situation.   

Saturday, March 31, 2012

#50BookPledge Books 19-23 The Spellman Files

The Spellman Files by Lisa Lutz from Simon and Schuster 2007
I decided to read The Spellman Files because the upcoming book for our group is The Trail of the Spellman.  Ms Lutz does a wonderful job with the characters and I love Isabel.  She is easy to relate to, however, I don't think there are many out there that aspire to be like her.  The Spellman are the ultimate dysfunctional family but a lot of fun at the same time.  The Spellman Files was an easy read making for light reading before bed.  My only problem was the footnotes from Isabel, since the book was written in the first person, because I found them distracting and truthfully they don't add much to the story.

The Curse of the Spellmans by Lisa Lutz from Simon and Schuster 2008
The Curse of the Spellmans is a wonderful followup to The Spellman Files.  What I really like about Ms Lutz's Spellman series is you don't necessarily need to read the books in order or all of the books for that matter.  The books are done in such a way they can be read in isolation, however, they are a lot more fun when done in order of the series.  The Curse of the Spellmans picks up a couple of years after The Spellman Files left off and continues to draw the reader into Isabel's wacky world.  Again the characters are loveable with Isabel being the star of the show, but Rae could easily carry the series herself if the books continue that long.

The Spellman Strike Again by Lisa Lutz from Simon and Schuster 2010
Another side splitting caper from Ms. Lutz!  Even though I've read this book out of order, Revenge of the Spellman comes first, I don't feel that I've missed much.  There is a wonderful amount of information that is repeated in each of the Spellman Files books that allows for the reader to pick up just about any of them and dive in.  While I find the footnotes from Isabel annoying at times, if you are starting with this book then they do help explain some of the history as does the appendix.  The way the information is repeated across the Spellman Files books does not make it boring, as there is always a new spin on it.  I particularly like how Isabel will occasionally advise the reader that if they want more information on a certain topic they probably should go read the previous books.

The Revenge of the Spellman by Lisa Lutz from Simon and Schuster 2009
The Revenge of the Spellmans was the perfect followup to the Curse of the Spellman. As I mentioned in my previous review, I read this book after The Spellman Strike Again meaning out of order. While It helps to read all of the Spellman books I didn't find that my reading experience was diminished. As much as I might rile against the footnotes and the appendix, these additions to the books allow you to read out of order or just one.

The Trail of the Spellman by Lisa Lutz from Simon and Schuster 2012
I found this rendition of the Spellman files to be a bit of a departure from the 4 previous "documents."  This novel focused on a few key cases and explored interesting topics allowing for a much more in depth relationship with the secondary characters.  My comments on the previous four books hold true for this one, however, it was more developed with Isabel having a much more stable life.  The treatment of the Vivian Blake case after it is discovered//assumed she is adopted was handled very well and I was especially please by Isabel's advice to Vivian when she presented her with the envelope that could potentially answer several questions.  Of the 5 Spellman file books if you only have time to read one this is the one I recommend you read.

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 18 The Book of Awesome

The Book of Awesome by Neil Pasricha from Berkley (A Division of Penguin) 2011

The Book of Awesome has something for everyone!  The book has been around the house for about a month and both adults have read at least parts of it.  What I really liked about The Book of Awesome is that many of the anecdotes could be read to my four year old.  Neil does a great job of writing about uniquely female experiences often qualifying them with, "so I've heard," as well as the uniquely male experiences and those that can be experienced by just about anyone.  While you might not agree with all of the anecdotes in this book, you should be able to relate to at least 1/2 of them.  I am looking forward to reading my next Book of Awesome by Neil Pasricha and am seriously considering the Holidays one because we can all use a little pick me up during the October through January rush better know as the Christmas Season!  Another benefit of The Book of Awesome is you don't need to ready it in order and can even walk away, coming back days later, but not feel like you have missed anything because each story is self contained usually in a page, however, sometimes as long as 5 pages.  I think everyone should read this book.

Saturday, March 24, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 17 Sophie's World

#50BookPledge Book 17 Sophie's World by Jostein Gaarder from Renaissance Press, 2007

Sophie's World is an interesting novel.  I wasn't thrilled with the premise of the book to start with but is quickly became something I didn't mind listening to while working around the house.  For someone with a passing interest in philosophy the author does a good job reviewing the key philosophers throughout history through the 1990s.  Sophie's World was the perfect book for me on this subject and also works for a young adult since the main character, Sophie, is a 14 almost 15 year old girl.  While not for everyone, Sophie's World might well be your best introduction to the complex and every changing world of philosophy.

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 16 The Winter Palace

I'm still moving forward in the 50 Book Pledge and surprisingly just complete my sixteenth book.  Here is my latest bit of feedback about that book.

The Winter Palace by Eva Stachniak from DoubleDay Canada, 2012.

While this novel is billed as A Novel of Catherine the Great, but I really didn't see it that way.  Instead I found this to be a story of Empress Elizabeth who was a very conniving individual.  The Winter Palace is a tale of intrigue, lying, spying and finding the balance between what is best for an individual, a family and ultimately the country.  The storyline is filled with tales of friends and lovers who spy on each other for personal reasons that are occasionally revealed but not always.  I don't have a lot of experience with Russian History and many of the names in the novel were known in passing, but now I have a much better understanding of their roles in history!  The Winter Palace is worth the read if you have an interest in history or mystery.  The author interweaves these two genres very well.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 15 The Scottish Prisoner

The Scottish Prisoner by Diana Gabaldon from Simon and Schuster, 2011

I'm a fickle Gabaldon Fan in that I really like Outlander Series, but usually can't stand the Lord John Grey Series.  The Scottish Prisoner being the third in the Lord John series was a nice bridge between the two series.  It gave a new perspective on the relationship between Jamie Fraser and Lord John Grey.  I found the supporting characters to be very strong and was introduced to some names we see in later Outlander Series books.  I was surprised, however, that Lord John didn't figure out until near the end of this book that William was Fraser's son. Hopefully this book will keep my Gabadlon interest at bay until Book 8 of the Outlander Series is released.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 14 How I Got This Way

How I Got This Way by Regis Philbin from IT Books, 2011

This was a fun read.  Regis has done a terrific job of writing about 31 people who have had an influence on his television/talk show career.  Whether this was a person he had to fortune of meeting face to face or that he was forced to admire from afar.  Regis' influences come from all walks of life including sports, military and show business. It is obvious that Regis holds each of these individuals in high regard, often portraying himself like a star struck, admiring fan.  Regis makes it easy for the reader to relate to him with his essays.  For me this book is worth the read and will give you a respect for those people in show business who are really no different than the average person.


Saturday, February 25, 2012

Four and Frugal

My little girl is four and has been shopping with me since birth.  Apparently she's picked up some of my habits and is starting to incorporate them into her shopping.  For starters she knows not to go grocery shopping without a list and I will buy certain things if they are on sale or if I have a coupon. 

The other day my daughter was at the Toy Grocery Store and asked if she could use her money to buy a new toy.  I said if there was something she really wanted and it was within her $10 budget.  At the Toy Grocery Store it is easy to see what is on sale because they use bright yellow stickers.  My daughter looked at items on sale and could not find anything she wanted.  We then headed to clothing department where she found a cute top.  Her first question was whether it was on sale and they could she buy it.  Since this wa clothes I told her I'd buy it letting her keep her allowance.

When I related the story to my husband later that day he was surprised that our daughter would know when something was on sale and that she didn't spend her money. He was the one that suggested this post.

Monday, February 20, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 13 The Power of Positive Thinking

The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale from Simon and Schuster 1999

Pleasantly surprised by this book and how it still applies today.  I was surprised by the number of references to the Bible and Christian practices in the book, however, they really do apply making the book easier to follow.  Definitely worth the time to read/listen to or otherwise explore.  You might even learn something about yourself in the process.

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Love Notes

Way back when we were dating (some 14 years ago) my husband and I started writing letters to each other at Christmas.  I kept them all and like to look back every so often to see what the special memories are (often something very simple). Now this is the one time a year I as hubby to get in touch with his feelings, but he doesn't complain.  Some of the letters are longer than others but it is really the thought we both appreciate.

We also write annual birthday letters to our daughter.  These started two weeks before she arrived and are really meant as a journal for when she is older.  I share the special memories for the year, key milestones like first haircut and hopes/dreams for the future.  The future stuff is pretty general because I don't want her reading these in 20 years and feeling she's disappointed us by not living up to our dreams for her.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

#50BookPledge - Books 9-12 - The Twilight Saga

The Twilight Saga by Stephanie Meyer from Little Brown and Company 2005-2008 #50BookPledge my next four books.

Recently I borrowed The Twilight Saga Collection e-book from my local library at the urging of a couple of friends.  Since The Twilight Saga is deemed Young Adult fiction I wasn't sure if this was something I'd be interested in, much less enjoy, but I figured it was worth a shot.  Ultimately I enjoyed all four of the novels and the consistent format. 

Book 1 Twilight
This book could easily stand alone and doesn't require the sequels, however, it is much more complete with them.  The book is well written with a very plausible setting that makes you want to keep reading.  The main characters as well as the majority of the secondary characters are introduced in this book and are realistic.  Based on Twilight Ms. Meyer has set a high standard for the remaining books in the series.

Book 2 New Moon
Picks up exactly where Twilight leaves off so there is no guessing what happened in the months/years in between.  The treatment of Chapter 3 when Edward leaves and Bella retreats into herself is well done.  The blank months followed up by living on the edge as a very clear definition of the escape.  Maybe I'm biased but I love that the couple gets back together and are going to be facing a number of future challenges together.

Book 3 Eclipse
Not a huge fan of Jacob in Eclipse, but I am intrigued by the new developments.  I found Eclipse a bit harder to follow, yet it was still a good reading, just required more attention probably because it seemed like it was filling some dead space. 

Book 4 Breaking Dawn
A perfect wrap of the series as it ties up a lot of loose ends including the wedding, relationship with the vampires and wolves, etc.  I liked the truce between all of the different factions and the developing relationship between the "vegetarian" vampires and the wolves.   While the book mainly follows Edward and Bella, there is a fair bit of attention on Renesmee and I would like to see follow up series about her life. 


#50BookPledge Book 8 Eat Pray Love

Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert from the Penguin Group USA, 2007

I looked forward to reading Eat Love Pray having heard a great deal of praise for it especially leading up to the release of Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage. Instead of reading the book I received the audio book narrated by Elizabeth Gilbert.

This book didn't live up to the hype that surrounded it, at least not to my expectations. Elizabeth's book was very much an autobiography of a period of her life, and didn't have any relation to my life.  My apologies to the author by this was not a book I enjoyed.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Kisses - Little Reminders

Now one would think it is obvious where kisses come into play reminding another person in your life how important they are but maybe there are other times or situations you have not considered. 

It seems whenever someone in our house hurts someone's feelings the best way to make the pain go away is for the offender to give a kiss and say I'm Sorry!  It is fun when this happens between the adults and our daughters sees it because it helps her to understand how feelings get hurt and how a little caring can fix them.

Kisses also make for a heartfelt yet inexpensive reward system.  When I "catch" my daughter being good I'll often sneak a kiss and let her know I am happy with what she is doing.  Most of the time this results a smile!


Saturday, February 4, 2012

Pictures - Preserving Memories

This is where the old saying, "A picture says a thousand words," really holds true. I am not a huge picture person and think my husband's aunt is a bit crazy when she tries to get 75+ people between the ages of 0 and 80 together for the annual family photo.

Pictures are a very important part of who we are and do a great job of telling our stories.  We regularly print pictures we've taken from vacations and special events or just a part of everyday life. We find these pictures helpful when our daughter asks a question about something that happened in the passed.

We regularly display pictures around our house, changing them to keep current.  My daughter has photo albums she looks at regularly along with the photos on our computers.  This encourages me to want to take me more pictures just because.  Of course this is becoming more fun as our daughter is starting to take her ourn photos, often of her feet.

Two of the biggest photo events for our family, however, are the slide shows my husband put together for a couple big events.   The first was for my dad's 65th birthday and we had a difficult time locating enough pictures to fill five minutes plus nothing from his childhood.  Luckily with the help of his coworkers and friends we were able to pull it off.  The second slide show was to celebrate our daughter's adoption and baptism.  This time the problem was limiting the number of photos.

So enjoy your photos.  Share them often, download them and see how they can brighten someone's day.





Sunday, January 29, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 7 The Kings Speech

The King's Speech by Mark Logue and Peter Conradi from Penguin Books 2010 was my 7th read in the 2012 #50BookPledge.  I picked the King's Speech as my next read by accident.  I have wanted to read it for a while, but had not gotten around to it.  Since I was caught up on my book club reads and had no physical books on hand I opted to download it from my local library.

I took me three days to read The King's Speech as it was a well written book with an even pace to it.  Although technically a biography about Lionel Logue, the speech therapist of George VI, it contained a great deal about the Royals and the history of the time.  I learned a great deal while reading The King's Speech that I didn't know. 

Overall The King's Speech was the perfect read for my weekend and I am looking forward to seeing the movie.

Thursday, January 26, 2012

#50BookPledge Book 6 The Darlings

The Darlings by Cristina Alger from Penguin Books 2012

This review almost wrote itself and didn't feel like I was forcing it.  I received an ARC of The Darlings from Penguin Canada and have been looking for an opportunity to read it for the last little while.

When you hear a title like The Darlings and see the cover of this novel you expect it to be set during the late 19th and early 20th century during the Gilded age in the United States.  I was pleasantly surprised that this was not the case.  The Darlings is a refreshing contemporary novel with the backdrop being the on-going financial turmoil on Wall Street that started in 2007.

This is a novel I had trouble putting down and was captivated by the storyline.  It is a story of intrigue and suspense with lots of unexpected turns.  The characters have a depth that is equal to their role and the interconnecting relationships add to the complexity of the story.  I am passing the book my husband to read, something I rarely do.

Overall the book was a good read but I found the epilogue out of place and would have preferred it not be there.